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Blessing Karubwa, [email protected]
AS the clock struck midnight and the calendar flipped to a new year, the world burst into a frenzy of resolutions — hopes painted in vibrant colours of aspiration.
Yet, for many, like Ms Andile Dube, a 32-year-old mother of four from Skuta Village, Insiza District in Matabeleland South, this ritual often transforms into an emotional cycle of unfulfilled promises and shattered dreams.
In 2023, Ms Dube envisioned opening a bustling shop at her rural home, a beacon of hope for her family’s future. However, financial constraints quickly dimmed that dream.
The following year, she turned to education, enrolling at a local teachers’ college, only to face the bitter reality of tuition fees she could not afford.
Yet, amid the setbacks, Ms Dube remains undeterred. She now dreams of purchasing broiler chicks to start a poultry project that could one day support her studies.
“My fees were US$575, and I failed to raise the funds. Even now, I am short of US$200,” she shared, her voice heavy with disappointment.
“I need someone to loan me that amount. I can’t just give up; I keep trying, hoping for something better,” she explained, her spirit resilient despite the weight of her struggles.
Her story mirrors the lives of many who set ambitious resolutions, only to watch them slip away as the months unfold.
Yet, with each small step, there lies the potential for growth and eventual success.
“It’s heart-breaking, but I just keep trying,” she acknowledged, fully aware of the cyclical nature of her disappointments.
“Each day is a chance to move closer to your aspirations, no matter how small the step,” she mused, holding onto the flicker of hope that one day, her dreams will transform into reality.
In the heart of Skuta Village, amidst struggles and heartaches, the spirit of perseverance shines brightly.
Ms Dube’s journey serves as an emotional reminder that while the road may be steep, the power of hope can illuminate even the darkest paths.
Cde Addington Mpofu, Zanu-PF Youth League Bulawayo provincial information and publicity secretary, shared a similar story.
In 2024, he said he realised only two of his five goals.
“Usually, I set 10 goals, but this year I thought five would be more manageable,” he reflected, highlighting the common battle of balancing ambition with reality.
But what keeps many from reaching their goals?
In an interview, charismatic Bulawayo-based Prophet Bruce Edwards, leader of Kingdom Empowerment Centre (KEC) said unrealistic goal-setting driven by envy and coupled with unhelpful company, often leads to disappointment.
Prophet Edwards urged individuals to trust in God, reset their mindsets and view failure as a stepping stone to success.
“Overestimating abilities, procrastination and lack of focus hinder progress,” he explained.
“One setback does not define your abilities or future. Plan, execute and persist. Failure is an opportunity to begin again, this time more intentionally,” he emphasised.
Leading psychologist and motivational speaker, Dr Naeem Farzana highlighted the common pitfalls of goal-setting adding that procrastination, fear of failure and perfectionism can paralyse even the most determined individuals.
“Motivation wanes due to a lack of structure, accountability, or measurable progress,” she said, highlighting how everyday responsibilities often overshadow long-term ambitions.
Dr Farzana, founder of Gateway Mental Health Rehabilitation and Naturopathy, offered a beacon of hope for those feeling lost in their aspirations.
“Set Smart (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) goals. Break larger goals into manageable steps and track your progress regularly. Focus on habits rather than one-time achievements to foster consistency. Celebrate small wins along the way; it’s essential for sustaining motivation,” she said.
Dr Farzana said setbacks are opportunities to learn and grow.
“Start with small, realistic goals and focus on steady progress rather than immediate results. Surround yourself with positivity and revisit your goals regularly,” she said.
The journey towards achieving one’s goals does not have to be a solitary endeavour. Building a support system or finding an accountability partner can make the process more manageable and rewarding.
“Each day is a chance to move closer to your aspirations, no matter how small the step.”
As we step into the new year, let us reflect on the inspiring stories of individuals like Ms Dube — those who continue to strive against the odds.
With proper planning, support and a realistic approach, the dreams that currently seem out of reach may one day blossom into reality.
Ms Dube’s resilience is a testament to the enduring human spirit, capable of persevering, adapting and fostering hope for a brighter tomorrow. — @TeamKarubwa
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