
Ethel Ncube
IMBONGI yesiJawundeni uNqindi “Lerato” Ndlovu ukhuthaza uzulu ukuba avuselele ezamasiko umuntu lomuntu azi imbali lezangelo zakhe.
Ekhuluma lentatheli uNqindi ubike ukuba sowananzelela ukuba abantwana abanengi lentsha abazi lutho ngezamasiko lembali yalapho abadabuka khona.
“Kudala ngibhoda izindawo ngihaya inkondlo kodwa ekuhambeni kwami senginanzelele ukuba ungabuza umntwana ukuthi izangelo zakho zithini njalo udabuka ngaphi kakwazi. Bazali asihlaleni phansi labantwana labasakhulayo umntwana umfundise umchazele ukuthi lina lingabakobani, lidabuka ngaphi.
Ezikolo khathesi kuyathiwa umntwana katsho izitemo zakhe ehluleke lesisodwa. Kungumlandu wethu ukuba sibambisane sibafundise abantwana bahlale bekwazi,” kutsho uNqindi.
Uqhubekele phambili eveza ukuba yena uzaqhubekela phambili esenza umsebenzi wakhe wokuhaya.
“Mina isikolo singangimbiza ngivele angekeli, ngiyafika ngihaya izangelo zezibongo ezimbili, ezintathu lami kuyindlela yokuncedisa ukuba abantwana bethu bazi ngezangelo zabo.
“Abalembali engiyaziyo lapho abadabuka khona ngizababela lami babekwazi ngalapho abavela khona.
Imbali iyingxenye yamasiko kungakho kumele kuvuselelwe kungafi amasiko ethu sikhona siphila.
Bazali asizameni ngamandla ethu sonke sifundise abantwana ngembali yethu lapho esidabuka khona.
Umntwana uyathola esazi isibongo kuphela, ukuthi yena izitemo zakhe zithini lokuthi ababongwa ngesibongo esithile, bazila kuphi ukudla uyabe engakwazi. Umlandu ukithi, asincedisaneni, ababalisi bethu bebuza abantwana bevele belolwazi,” kuphetha uNqindi.